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There’s no denying it: breakups are painful, even when they’re handled with care. They have the power to rock you to your core, making you doubt your self-assurance as well as your faith in love itself. You’re dealing with the very real ache of rejection on top of mourning a lost love if you’ve been dumped. When you’re the one who made the decision to end things, guilt is often mixed in with your misery. A split is an ending, even in the most amicable, mutual situations, and we’re encouraged to feel that an ending is a failure in a culture that prioritises “forever” as a relationship ideal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have the finest intentions for what’s to come when we’re in love, but life happens<\/a>. Having to say goodbye to someone is a difficult but important aspect of life. Just so you know, the perfect moment to rebrand yourself is while you’re going through a breakup. Without having to consider anyone except yourself, you can be whatever you want to be, do whatever you want to do, and attempt anything you want to try. Sure, you have every right to be inconsolable in those first few harrowing days and weeks. However, with patience, you will be able to progress. Here are 7 ideas to help you feel better right away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allow yourself time to grieve.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Your feelings are real, regardless of the circumstances of your breakup, and processing them is a journey in and of itself. When you break up with someone, you’re giving up a significant portion of your life. They are a companion, a lover, a confidante, and possibly a roommate. They’ve most likely been a regular part of your life for a long time, and you should lament their loss as if it were a death. It’s fine to be sad one day, mad the next, in denial the next, and then sad again the following. However, if you want to move forward in your life, letting all of those sentiments out can be useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t Stay Friends With Your Ex.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps the two of you agreed to remain friends, as many people do. Keeping the connection helps keep things cordial and makes the shiftless abrupt, especially if you’re doing it for practical reasons like working together, but it may be a difficult effort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A post-breakup friendship may develop over time, with a strong emphasis on the word “time.” Few ex-partners make a smooth transition into friendship right away (and if you think you have, wait till one of you starts seeing someone new).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keeping in touch with an ex<\/a>, especially if you haven’t given yourself enough time to process the breakup, has been related to increased melancholy, jealousy, heartbreak, and even a more difficult time finding a new romantic partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the other person caused the split, erase their phone number from your phone so you don’t feel compelled to contact them. It will help you avoid the dreaded drunk dial and the need to send inappropriate text messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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